COUPLES THERAPY IS HARD WORK.

I see couples in conflict, and neurodiverse couples.

It is an investment of your time, your money, and your emotional energy. It is a commitment to bettering your relationship, or figuring out if & how you can separate more amicably, especially if children are involved. My focus is twofold: increasing communication skills (showing you in real time which ones are hurting your relationship), and teaching neurodiverse couples how to manage emotional intimacy and the feelings of loneliness more effectively. I can also help with sex therapy around the issues of shifting desire, aging, and reviving your intimacy. I would love for all couples to understand that pressure kills desire.

ARE YOU STUCK?

I offer a structure that is predictable and doable, with a cost estimate you can count on, unless YOU elect to go beyond it. Isn’t your primary relationship worth this commitment? In my experience, it takes about 12 weeks of consistent weekly sessions for a couple to experience an internal shift that takes hold and continues to move them forward. This commitment is part of working with me, and it costs less than divorce, by a LOT. Contact me here if you are ready to do the work.

Here’s a quote from London’s most famous divorce attorney (with clients like Princess Diana, supermodel Jerry Hall, and billionaire Saudi sheiks):

Sandra Davis, London’s top divorce lawyer, has a bit of advice after 40 years. 

“Avoid it if you can. Never underestimate what it will involve. A divorce is like a train wreck; it upends all relationships, not just the one with the spouse. Those who feel stifled and think a new relationship is the answer are often in for a shock. It can be liberating, a new life. But it’s not easy. It’s like indigestion. You never get rid of your ex. That goes double if children are involved.”—The Telegraph (U.K.)

Learn what it means to create a healthy climate in your most important relationship, and how to weather the storms successfully–not just slog through them.