If you are trying to actively listen, that is okay. But to really hear someone, you must be truly curious about what they have to say.

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Oh sure there are things you can do like mirroring, paraphrasing and labeling (EX: so it sounds like you feel trapped) which ARE helpful, but the essence of listening, and truly making one feel heard, is that you really are genuinely curious about them.

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